Connecticut Private Investigator Offers Advice On How to Beat a Cheating Husband at His Own Game

A leading private investigator explains how many women are taking action to catch suspicious spouses in the act.

“Cheating husbands are still a hot topic in the media,” says Christopher Paoletti, Founder and President of Infidelity Investigations (, a Connecticut private investigation firm that specializes in infidelity cases. “As a result, many women that have long suspected that their husbands were cheating are now taking steps to find out if their suspicions are true.”

According to Paoletti, the best way for a woman to determine if her husband is cheating is to collect as much evidence as possible.

“Gathering the necessary evidence of infidelity not only helps a wife to understand the true nature of her marriage,” says Paoletti, “but it is that evidence that will be necessary if divorce is a consideration.”

Paoletti says that it is the evidence of infidelity that can be critical to a women’s success in obtaining a fair settlement. Gaining factual, legally viable evidence of an affair, he says, is not only necessary, but it can give a woman an advantage.

“This is why hiring a professional private investigator to do the job is a good idea,” says Paoletti.

For the wife’s part, Paoletti suggests that she leave the evidence gathering to the professionals and keep a journal of any suspicious activity.

“Women seem to have a sixth sense about infidelity, so once a wife begins to suspect, they should start writing down those suspicions,” says Paoletti. “We tell our clients to give as much detail as possible about why they suspect that an affair is taking place and take notes that include any strange behavior with times, dates and observations.”

Paoletti suggests that the wife makes sure to keep the journal hidden by asking a friend to hold onto the journal for her.

“The longer that a woman is able to keep her suspicions a secret, the longer she will be able to garner evidence,” says Paoletti. “Letting the spouse know of any suspicions may cause him to change his routine, which makes gathering evidence harder. Of course, it is advisable to involve a professional private investigator as soon as possible, to be sure that all bases are covered.”

Established in 2001, Infidelity Investigations is a bonded, fully insured and licensed private investigation firm in the State of Connecticut, specializing in infidelity investigations, surveillance, background investigations, attorney investigation services, and GPS tracking. For more information, call 203-268-6319 or visit